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Dissociating During Sex? Three Ways To Help BEFORE Intimacy

Have you ever found yourself dissociating during intimate moments? Dissociation is a common protective mechanism the body uses when it feels overwhelmed or unsafe. Rather than viewing it as a failure, it can be helpful to see dissociation as your body’s way of communicating that it needs care. By preparing for intimacy with intentional practices, you can create a safer, more connected experience that helps you stay present.

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Depression: Finding Connection During Seasonal Depression: A Guide to Reaching Out in January

January can feel like an isolating month. The holidays are over, the days are short and cold, and the world seems quieter. For those experiencing seasonal depression, this time of year can be particularly lonely. However, one of the most powerful ways to navigate this period is by seeking connection—with a friend, a loved one, or a community. Building and nurturing relationships can bring warmth and light into even the darkest days.

This blog is a heartfelt reminder that you don’t have to go through this alone. Whether it’s a small conversation or a shared moment of understanding, connection can help lift the weight of seasonal depression and remind you that you are cared for and valued.

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KINK: Why Am I Into That?

Have you ever wondered why certain things ignite your sexual desire while others leave you indifferent? From early experiences to biological wiring, a wide range of factors can shape what we’re drawn to in the bedroom. In this blog, we explore the emotional, psychological, and cultural influences behind sexual preferences, helping you understand and embrace your desires with compassion and curiosity. Whether you're questioning why certain kinks or fantasies excite you or simply curious about the roots of your sexual interests, this article provides insight into the complex world of human sexuality.

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KINK: How to Have That Conversation

Talking about kink in a relationship can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. Whether you’re in a monogamous couple or navigating a polyamorous dynamic, open communication is key to building trust and exploring desires. In this guide, we’ll walk you through how to start the conversation about kink, create a safe and respectful space, and establish clear boundaries that work for everyone involved. By approaching the topic with empathy and curiosity, you can strengthen your connection and create a more fulfilling, intimate relationship.

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KINK: Do I Need to See a Therapist If I Am Kinky?

Being kinky is a natural part of human sexuality, and many people enjoy healthy, fulfilling kinky relationships without ever needing therapy. However, if you’re grappling with feelings of shame, guilt, or confusion around your desires, or if kink is causing tension in your relationships, seeing a therapist can be beneficial. This blog explores when therapy might be helpful for kinky individuals, how to find a kink-affirmative therapist, and how therapy can support you in embracing your desires with confidence and clarity.

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KINK: Eight Signs You Might Need To See A Therapist About Your Kink

Being kinky is a natural part of human sexuality, and many people enjoy healthy, fulfilling kinky relationships without ever needing therapy. However, if you’re grappling with feelings of shame, guilt, or confusion around your desires, or if kink is causing tension in your relationships, seeing a therapist can be beneficial. This blog explores when therapy might be helpful for kinky individuals, how to find a kink-affirmative therapist, and how therapy can support you in embracing your desires with confidence and clarity.

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